How much longer must we argue about which side is worse?

I do not know if there is middle ground--everything is relative and it depends on the motivation--"if I do this then maybe I can do this" "or I do this for you--you do this for me" etc. Seems to me middle ground people spend a lot of time talking and little to no doing. It may be it is time for a fresh look at the party system--however I do not want a dictator or evil King.