Please help...my husband is avoiding me and my kids..what should i do?

you can't beleave this is happening to me....imagine my husband panishing me about things a did to him longtime ago and i already ask him to forgive me, he agreed...he is forgetting that he olso did so many bad things to me.....now when i ask him why he is avoiding me and our kids..he said " madam! you did a lot wrong to me in the past and sence then i dicided to change me ways.......and when i tell him i don't like the way we are living together he said he does't care this is the way he wanna be and that's it......what should i do.. please help.......im loosing it right now.....